Giving Grief Grace, a Grief Podcast for the Sandwich Generation

Episode 56 - Crafting Through Grief: How Kenya McCarthy Turns Her Mom's Belongings Into Healing Gifts

Lisa Hartung Season 2 Episode 56

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What do you do when grief meets a house full of craft supplies? For Kenya McCarthy, creator of @chronicallykenya and @k.carthydesigns, the answer was to start making things, sharing the process online, and building a strong grief community so people wouldn't feel alone. 

Kenya's story is layered: she was already navigating a multiple sclerosis diagnosis when her mom Nikki suffered a sudden stroke. Kenya traveled cross-country from California to Virginia to spend the last nine days of her mom's life by her side. When it came time to pack up Nikki's home — a woman who could, as Kenya says, make anything out of anything — Kenya made a decision that would change everything: she would turn her mom's belongings into memorial gifts for the people who loved her.

In this episode, Kenya and Lisa discuss:

  • Why crafting works as a grief tool and how Kenya assigns each project with a  "spoon rating" so grievers can find a craft that matches their energy
  • The story of her mom, Nikki: vibrant, feisty, and the inventor of the phrase "chuck it in the fuck it bucket"
  • How Kenya hears her mom's voice as she problem-solves her way through every project
  • The K. Carthy Designs story — the moment Kenya discovered her mom had written Kenya's abandoned fashion dream on the first page of her own goal journal
  • Why Kenya grieves her mom publicly and honors her legacy by talking about her every day

If you are grieving, crafting, chronically ill, or trying to find a way to keep the people you've lost a little bit closer, this episode is for you.

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