Giving Grief Grace
Giving Grief Grace is a heartfelt podcast offering a safe space where stories of love, loss, light, and healing are shared with compassion and empathy. In each episode, honest conversations woven with nurturing insights create a safe haven, fostering a community of support where sorrow is met with kindness, and the path to healing is approached with utmost care, respect, and love.
Giving Grief Grace
Episode 12 - Sibling Loss at 11: A Sister’s Story of Silent Mourning and What Could Have Been
When Jessica Kueck was just 11 years old, her 3-year-old brother Aaron drowned—an unspeakable tragedy that cracked her world open and quietly redefined her family. Jessica shares what it was like to be the “forgotten mourner,” the older sibling who held space for everyone else while her own grief went largely unseen.
Now a devoted mother, spiritual seeker, and aspiring memoirist, Jessica reflects on how this early loss shaped her identity, how her grief evolved over the decades, and how becoming a parent brought newfound healing. We talk sibling dynamics, silent burdens, Jewish traditions, spiritual embodiment, and the deep wisdom she’s gained by navigating this invisible grief.
Jessica’s story is an invitation to recognize the losses we don’t always name—and to offer compassion to the siblings who are so often left behind. Her message is simple but powerful: you are not alone, and your grief matters.
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To connect with Jessica, you can message her on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jessica.kueck86/
Jessica mentions a few sibling loss resources:
Books:
Always A Sibling: The Forgotten Mourner's Guide to Grief https://www.amazon.com/Always-Sibling-Forgotten-Mourners-Guide/dp/030683149X
Surviving Sibling Loss: The Invisible Thread that Connects Us Through Life and Death https://www.amazon.com/Surviving-Sibling-Loss-Invisible-Connects-ebook/dp/B08RSPGWW8
Remembering Ruth: A Memoir of Childhood Sibling Loss https://a.co/d/5loqGsw
Coping With Sibling Loss in Adulthood: When Your Brother or Sister Dies in Adulthood: Dealing With Grief, Guilt, and Regret. (The Turning Point Series) https://www.amazon.com/Coping-Sibling-Loss-Adulthood-Brother/dp/B0D9N63TZ1/
The Empty Room: Understanding Sibling Loss https://www.amazon.com/Empty-Room-Understanding-Sibling-Loss/dp/0743201523
Other:
The Sibling Loss Project https://siblinglossproject.substack.com/
Sibling Loss Grief Group https://www.gretchnevans.com/our-sibling-grief-groups
The Surviving Siblings Podcast https://www.thesurvivingsiblings.com/
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Special thanks to:
Podcast Editor Jacqueline van Bierk of Pink Star Music
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